Jasper

Jasper.

I love this dog. Despite the fact that about half of what I've ever said about him has been in complaint, still....I love him. He is a sweet, sweet, sweetheart of a dog. He loved the kids. He loved them, even though he was constantly, accidentally, knocking them over.


He was especially good with Abbie. I ultimately have no explanation for why, but among Jasper's virtues, gentleness was not one of them. He was gentle with Abbie, though, laying beside her all the time, barely moving, his eyes on her and his tail happily thumping.

It was time to admit defeat, though.
We failed.
There's no way to whitewash it.
Jasper needed space to run in, but he couldn't do it here. Here, he could jump over the fence at will and run off chasing cars. We couldn't take him outside unless he was on leash, which meant that he couldn't run at all.

There are other things, too: there were too many toys, and he couldn't learn to leave them alone. He destroyed everything he touched, and so as time went on he spent more and more time in the kitchen, because that was the only way we could keep him from breaking the toys.

The truth is, he just wasn't a good fit for us right now. We tried to make it work, because we did love him, but nobody was happy.

So yesterday, Chris drove Jasper back to the farm he was born on and the breeder assured us that she has a family already waiting to take him. They've always had two dogs, and last year both of their dogs (both Chessies) died. They have a puppy now, but wanted an older dog as well, one who was already house-trained. They have three kids. The kids are all older, their youngest is the same age as our oldest.

I am so glad they have kids. Jasper really loves kids.




So here we are. We had our cry out yesterday, and now the house feels weird and quiet.

We love you, Jasper. I'm so glad we were able to find a good situation for you, but I am so, so sorry that it wasn't here.